Hey guys! Skiing sounds fun! Man the climate is so
different here in England - but it has actually been getting pretty warm
this week, which is nice!
(He asked James a little bit about his work and his practices). Man it's only now that I'm seeing other people
and their lifestyles and their jobs and the way they run their lives I
realize how good you set yourself up. Like man - there are so many
people here who just do nothing - or don't have any set career or job,
but somehow you just got it set up.
This week
we had a tea appointment every night. And mama they feed us stuff like
chicken curry
or Shepard's pie or one family fed us lamb, with potatoes
and veggies and gravy and stuff, oh and Yorkshire puddings which are
delicious! But I am learning so much about people and how their
lifestyles are and it's kind of showing me what sort of a career I want
to follow -kind of- if you know what I mean.
Like
dad I remember talking to you once about how I have no idea what the
heck I want to do in terms of a career, and you told me that that was
okay, that I was still young and that I would see the example of people
on my mission and how their lives work and that would help me decide
what sort of a career I want to go into. And you were TOTALLY right. In
this ward there are a bunch (like maybe 6 or 7) young returned
missionary couples with young kids. Our ward mission leader is named
Andrew Mayor and he fed us along with Lindsay (who btw was baptized on
Saturday! More on that to come..) and he has a wife and two young kids.
But just the way they were this couple. Two young kids - both have super
strong testimonies, both returned missionaries, they just are happy and
know who they are and what they want to be! They don't know everything -
but they're living life the right way, the way that I want to live it.
Get home, go to school, get married, get a job, have kids, hold a
calling, be temple worthy... just be happy! Be happy because I will know
that I am doing the right things - that I'm doing what God wants me to
do, that I'm living in the family unit - ordained of God - in which I
will find the happiness God has promised for me there.
I
know that it starts now though. I can't just sit back and cruise
through life without a care in the world and just expect everything to
fall into my lap. No. I am learning how to work hard. How to set goals.
How to work to make myself better. How to identify my weaknesses and how
to use the atonement of Jesus Christ to eliminate them - or I guess
just make myself less bad at those things. I understand now that this
pattern is something that I need to carry with me throughout my life.
Always have my feet firmly planted on the rock of my redeemer and rely
on Him to carry me through the trials, but try my absolute hardest to
become like Him and follow his example.
In my
patriarchal blessing it says paraphrased that 'if I keep myself worthy I
will be sealed in the temple to a worthy companion of my choice and
raise up a righteous posterity in Israel. Do you remember that day mom
and dad? Do you remember that I cried like a baby when I heard that?
It's because it is exactly what I wanted then - and it is still exactly
what I want now.
I don't know if I told you
about this story in a previous e-mail ( I may already have) but it's
about the last night in the MTC. The last night there we went to do one
last session in the Temple. I had decided that I would go through the
session this last time with a question in mind. Now you remember that in
the MTC I was struggling hard to get along with my companions there,
but I learned a lot about how to deal with people. But for kind of that
reason the question that I went through the temple with that day was:
''how can I be a better missionary companion?''.
I
was enlightened that session. The answers poured in to my mind. I've
been using the things I learned that night with all my companions and
they're helped so much.
But after the session,
I sat down in a chair in the Celestial room and I thought about my
question. And the answers came again - but this time they changed. They
were changing from ''how can I be a good missionary companion?'' to
''How can I be a good eternal companion, a good husband, a good
father?'' and my mind was opened to those answers as well.
But
as I sat there in the celestial room, I was sitting across from a sofa -
and I saw, in my mind's eye - my eternal companion and I sitting there
together, enjoying together the unity and the love that was between us
and our Heavenly Father. I KNOW that one day I will be sealed in the
Temple. That we will raise up a righteous posterity. I saw it then, and I
know it now.
Also this Thursday I got a text
from the bishop asking me if I could prepare a back up talk about ''why
do we invite people?'' in case one of his speakers didn't show up. So I
thought a lot about it. And I kind of just want to share like a brief
outline of what I was going to talk about (I didn't end up having to give
it - but I'll be giving it in a few weeks time).
Why
do we invite people? - was the topic. So, what people are we talking
about? Does that mean friends, family, neighbours, homeless people we
meet on the street? what does it mean by people.
The answer is: All of the above.
All
of us as people, as human being here on earth share at least one thing
in common. One important trait in our identity that joins us all
together eternally. What is it? We are ALL CHILDREN OF GOD. (see Psalms
82:6)
So why is that even important? Let me see
if I can explain. A lot of religous bodies believe that we are
spiritual creations of a God in heaven. Whereas we as members of the
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints believe that we are the
literal spirit offspring of our Heavenly Father.
Now
imagine that I - a normal man - create two things. One of them is a
painting, a picture of a beautiful baby boy. The other is an actual
beautiful baby boy - my son, my offspring.
Is
the painting ever going to grow up? Is it ever going to become a man?
No. But the boy - my son - will. My son has the potential in fact to
gain in his lifetime as much knowledge and experience as me. Maybe more.
HE can receive eventually everything that I have. Will the painting?
No. A mere creation can never become like it's creator. But a child can
become like a father. Get the point? So it is with god.
If
we were to believe that we were just creations of God, then we are
limiting ourselves in our potential. But we are NOT mere creations. We
are children of God - and we therefore have the potential to become like
Him, to return to His presence and receive everything He has.
In 3 Nephi 32:28 (in the
Book of Mormon) Jesus commands: ''I would that ye should be PERFECT, even as I or your Father who is in Heaven is perfect.''
Are any of us perfect? No. But God has commanded us to be perfect?
Nephi enlightens us in 1 Nephi 3:7
''I
will go and do the things which the Lord has commanded. For I know that
the Lord giveth no commandment unto the Children of men save he shall
PREPARE A WAY for them that they may accomplish the thing which He
commandeth them.''
So God ALWAYS prepares a way
for us to keep his commandments. SO if He commands us to be perfect,
and He always prepares a way.... then what is the way?
...the
answer to those who are members of the Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-Day Saints should be obvious. He is the founder of our Church -
the head of it. HE is the savior of the world, our redeemer, the Mighty
God, The Prince of Peace.
He is Jesus Christ.
He is the way. Only because of His atonement can we become like our
Father. Jesus Christ is also our exemplar. If you want to know how to be
perfect: study his life. Learn who he was and how He behaved. Study
Christlike attributes (Preach My Gospel has a whole section about them),
develop those attributes within yourself.
''If any of us are imperfect, it is our duty to pray for the gift that will MAKE us perfect''
It's
no excuse to say: ''Oh I'm just lazy, that's just who I am''. CHANGE is
an eternal law. That is what the atonement of Jesus Christ is all
about: change. Changing our hearts. Changing our wills to be more in
harmony with the will of God our Father. So GET OFF YOUR LAZY BUTT and
start being more like Christ. I know that wasn't a very Christlike way
to put that, but I'm still learning too ok.
If
we do this - follow the pattern outlined in the Gospel of Jesus Christ
of Faith and repentance - we can become perfect through Him, and return
to live with our Eternal Heavenly Father AND receive EVERYTHING THAT HE
HAS - to become for ourselves, a God.
SO we know this. As members of the Church we know this. But NOT EVERYBODY KNOWS THIS. They should!
As
members - it is our duty and responsibility to share this knowledge
with everyone. Not to judge others, but to freely invite them to learn
about the Gospel of Jesus Christ and help them along their journey to
Godhood and perfection.
C.S Lewis says this:
''It
is a strange thing to live in a society of potential Gods and
Goddesses. TO realize that even the dullest and most uninteresting
person you talk to may one day... be a creature which you would be
strongly tempted to worship. THERE ARE NO ORDINARY PEOPLE.''
He's
right. Only potential gods and goddesses around us - they just don't
know that yet. So we need to let them know. That is our duty. That is
our purpose - the same as God's purpose ''To Bring to pass the
immortality and eternal life of man'' (Moses 1:39). When we start with
ourselves - start by making ourselves as Christlike as we can be, then
we will find that our will is aligned with God's and we will want to
bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of others by inviting
them to learn about Jesus Christ for themselves.
So
I actually never wrote out that talk I just had it all in my head - so I
kind of just spewed out a lot of information there out of my mind - but
that is basically what I have been thinking about all the time
everyday. Those two things: 1. I want to be a righteous husband and
father in Israel one day, and 2. the whole potential god's inviting
others stuff. So yeah.
Also mama - I hope you
go through these are correct the spelling mistakes in them - because I
type them out really really fast so there are probably lots.
Umm. I had a lot more stuff to talk about but I'll go through them fast.
We
spent 22 hours knocking on doors and talking to people in the street
this week, and because of that we have a bunch of new people to go visit
this coming week yay! Hard work pays off!
WE had a baptism this weekend! First one on my mission! Yay! Lindsay Rosetti. She is great.
Otley
is beautiful, I love this ward and this area. Elder McBride is great -
we're going to play ping pong at the chapel today haha.
Love you all!
Cheerio
Elder Thompson